Are you intrested in rope session?
Are you dreaming of sensual rope play or exploring pain?
Curious about experiencing your first suspension?
Or perhaps you're drawn to humiliation or fetish play in rope?
I offer rope sessions in the Pasila–Vallila area in Helsinki. Each session is designed around your wishes and boundaries. It can be sexual, sensual, intimate, or sadistic, depending on what you're looking for.
In a sensual session, ropes wrap gently around your body, holding, embracing, and hugging, while building tension and connection. In contrast, a more pain themed session may delve into challenging positions or explore the varities of pain and uncomfyness the ropes can create. We can also simply take the time to explore how rope feels on your body and discover different possibilities how to use the rope.
My sessions are open to everyone, regardless of gender, body, or experience. Whether you're just beginning your rope journey or have been hanging in ropes for years, we can create a safe and memorable experience together.
All interactions are handled with full confidentiality.
What does a session include?
Before the session, we’ll go through your wishes and the general outline together, and negotiate what we’ll be doing. This can happen via messages or a phone call, depending on your preference.
The session itself lasts about two hours and is divided into three parts:
1) discussion and negotiation
Before we begin, we’ll sit down together to go over safety aspects and go through again what’s going to happen, so that both of us feel comfortable and at ease before the session starts.
2) sessioning
The session can include floor ties as well as suspensions. If you wish, the session can also include BDSM elements, such as:
Pain (impact tools, candles, clips, pinwheel, coconut rope)
Humiliation
Worshipping body parts or shoes
Sensory deprivation (blindfolds, gags)
Fetishes (e.g. feet-, leather- or latex fetish).
Breath play
Role play, primal play and pet play
Or suggest something else!
3) aftercare
Aftercare is an important part of the session. What you need from aftercare depends entirely on you, it might include closeness and touch, sharing a cup of tea, or talking about how you’re feeling after the experience.
What does session not include?
During the session, underwear will remain on, and no touch will be made to the underwear area.
My face and breasts will not be touched without permission. I will also not touch your genitals. However, certain BDSM activities, such as spanking or kicking, may involve the genital area, if that’s your preference.
Photos by Gennady Kurushin
First photo by Juri Rings
How do I book a session?
You can book a session or ask for more information either through the contact form or directly via email shibari.sara@gmail.com.
Also, please share:
What are your expectations or wishes for the session?
Your boundaries: what you don’t want to experience, or any concerns or fears that should be taken into consideration.
Any physical or medical factors that may affect the session.
What times would work best for you.
In your message, tell me a bit about yourself, what kind of rope session interests you, and whether you've been tied up before. If you're completely new to rope and would like to explore it this way, I’d be happy to hear that as well!
Prices
The minimum time for a rope session is 2 hours, which always includes a discussion of session boundaries as well as aftercare.
2-hour session: 200€
Additional hours: +75€
2-hour session with BDSM elements: 300€
2-hour session for couples: 300€
2-hour session for couples with BDSM elements: 400€
Observer for the session: +50€
Through photography, you can also preserve your rope experience as a visual memory. If you’d like, I can take pictures of you in the ropes and send you a few edited shots afterward.
SAfety
Safety is my top priority during sessions. For this reason, we will also discuss the safety aspects in detail before the session begins.
There are always risks associated with rope bondage, which can be minimized but never fully eliminated. If you haven’t been tied before, or if you’d like to review topics such as nerve safety, I recommend checking out Helsinki Shibari’s article on nerves and safety.
Questions I will ask during the negotiation:
During the negotiation:
Has your body experienced any injuries before, or is there anything specific I should know before the session?
Are you aware of nerve risks, and do you know how to check your hands for nerve safety during the tie?
How would you like to communicate during the session? For example, how would you like me to check on your well-being while you’re being tied?
Will we use safewords?
Where are you comfortable being touched? What kind of touch do you enjoy?
If we do suspensions, do you have experience with them?
What kind of aftercare would you prefer?
Before the session:
How is your body feeling today?
Have you eaten and drank today?
Shall we go over once more what has been agreed and negotiated?
Photos by Adam Monaghan